{"id":460,"date":"2015-04-23T23:13:52","date_gmt":"2015-04-23T20:13:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=460"},"modified":"2020-06-20T17:56:54","modified_gmt":"2020-06-20T14:56:54","slug":"duygularin-en-yukseginde-dogariz-hepimiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=460","title":{"rendered":"Duygular\u0131n En Y\u00fckse\u011finde Do\u011far\u0131z Hepimiz…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"brothers-457237_960_720\"<\/a>Duygular\u0131n en y\u00fckse\u011finde do\u011far\u0131z hepimiz\u2026<\/p>\n

Bebek kokusundan bahseder insanlar: tenin tazeli\u011finden, duru\u015fun\u00a0masumiyetinden\u2026<\/p>\n

Bir dokunabilmek i\u00e7in, sar\u0131p sarmalayabilmek i\u00e7in, kucakta tutup, \u00f6ylece\u00a0bakabilmek i\u00e7in kalp at\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z h\u0131zlan\u0131r bazen\u2026<\/p>\n

Bebek odas\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131nda kal\u0131veriririz \u00f6n\u00fcnden ge\u00e7erken: hepsi birbirinden\u00a0g\u00fczel yanyana dizilmi\u015f miniklerin hi\u00e7 birini ayr\u0131 sevemeden, bazen hangisinin\u00a0bizim oldu\u011funu bile bilmeden, hayranl\u0131kla bakarken her birine ayr\u0131 a\u015fkla\u00a0i\u00e7imizde, sanki b\u00fct\u00fcnler, yenileniveririz aniden\u2026<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 birini daha az sevemeyece\u011fimizi bilir kalbin bir yeri\u2026<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 birine farkl\u0131 davranamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7birine ne yaparsa yaps\u0131n k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131kla bakamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 o cam\u0131n ard\u0131ndan\u2026<\/p>\n

Yarg\u0131s\u0131zca kalabal\u0131k bir insan grubuna bakmay\u0131 belki ilk kez orda beceririz\u00a0anda\u2026.<\/p>\n

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Sonra ne oluyor o bebeklere diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor insan??<\/p>\n

Sonra ne oluyor o bebek odas\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bize- kalabal\u0131klara diye belki?<\/p>\n

Ne oluyor da yarg\u0131lar o bebeklerin b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f hallerinde art\u0131k beliriveriyor \u00f6nde?<\/p>\n

Ne oluyor da ayn\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcleyici hisle dolam\u0131yor insan\u0131n i\u00e7i kalabal\u0131klarda\u00a0y\u00fcr\u00fcrken??<\/p>\n

Ne oluyor da bebe\u011fin masumiyetiyle birlikte yok oluyor meleklerin valsi:\u00a0g\u00f6klerde u\u00e7u\u015fan ruhlar \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fcklerinde, ne oluyor da yerlerde \u00e7amurlara\u00a0bulanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k hissiyle , dolan\u0131yorlar ortada kapkara bazen??<\/p>\n

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Hayat giriyor: davran\u0131\u015flar, inan\u0131\u015flar, inand\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lanlar\u2026<\/p>\n

Fonda \u00e7al\u0131nan m\u00fczik giriyor, televizyonda oynananlar\u2026<\/p>\n

E\u011fitim\u2026 E\u011fitimciler\u2026 E\u011fitildi\u011fimiz mekanlar\u0131n \u015fartlar\u0131 k\u0131p\u0131rt\u0131s\u0131z duru\u015flarda\u2026<\/p>\n

Etrafta yap\u0131lan sohbetler, duygularda hissedilenler , bebe\u011fin bedenine\u00a0tan\u0131mlananlar bu \u015fekilde \u2018\u2019 Yuvam\u2019\u2019, \u2018\u2019 Sevdi\u011fim insanlar\u2019\u2019, \u2018\u2019 G\u00fcvenli Hisler \u2018\u2019 dosya adlar\u0131yla\u2026<\/p>\n

Ve kabar\u0131yor t\u00fcm ruha uyumlu olmayan inan\u0131\u015flar. Kimi diretmeyle, kimi\u00a0ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131mlar\u0131ndan do\u011fan\u2026Negatif hislerin do\u011fumu ba\u015fl\u0131yor\u2026<\/p>\n

Negatif\u00a0hisler a\u011f\u0131rla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor ruhu, yava\u015f yava\u015f u\u00e7may\u0131 engellerken\u2026T\u00fcm duyular\u0131n\u0131 kapat\u0131yor: g\u00f6ren g\u00f6zlerini\u00a0elinden al\u0131yor, y\u00fcksekli\u011fini a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lara \u00e7ekiyor\u2026 Duyan kulaklar\u0131n\u0131 anlam\u0131\u00a0\u00e7\u00f6zemeyecek tamponlarla t\u0131k\u0131yor\u2026 Bedeni hissizle\u015ftiriyor,isteksizle\u015ftiriyor, \u00a0sevgiyi ve a\u015fk\u0131\u00a0tan\u0131mlayamaz hale getiriyor \u2026 Tutku kanal\u0131ndan uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor, yetersizlik\u00a0hissiyle do\u011fan isteklerin pe\u015finde s\u00fcr\u00fckl\u00fcyor i\u00e7ine hapsetti\u011fini\u2026<\/p>\n

Her negatif duygu yaratan olay\u0131n ard\u0131nda, her negatif duygudan gelen davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u00a0alt\u0131nda bir inan\u0131\u015f vard\u0131r asl\u0131nda\u2026 Ve otomatik programa ge\u00e7ince art\u0131k hayat\u0131n\u00a0i\u00e7inde ki\u015fi,al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar geli\u015ftirdik\u00e7e g\u00f6rd\u00fckleriyle, ruhunun sevgisiyle de\u011fil,\u00a0negatifin duman\u0131yla ve hissiyle sevdim dediklerine dokunuyor, isliyor onlar\u0131\u00a0da\u2026 Bilir bilmez , ister istemez lekeliyor\u2026 Sonras\u0131nda g\u00fczel bir banyo\u00a0gerekiyor\u2026 Sanal ac\u0131larla dolu ruh temizli\u011finde ki\u015fi anca ar\u0131n\u0131yor\u2026<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda b\u00fct\u00fcn negatif duygular konu\u015fuyor, her yeni deneyimde hissettirdi\u011fi\u00a0yap\u0131\u015f yap\u0131\u015f hislerle \u2018\u2019 Hadi hat\u0131rla , hafiflik senin do\u011fu\u015ftan hakk\u0131n, unutma, at\u00a0i\u00e7ine monte edilmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f inan\u00e7lar\u0131, a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131, hadi yine incel ve y\u00fcksel ger\u00e7e\u011fine \u2018\u2019\u00a0diye ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor ince y\u00fcksek sesle\u2026 Her ac\u0131yla, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k ve \u00f6fkeyle \u00a0\u2018\u2019Ger\u00e7e\u011fime yolculu\u011fum\u2026 Yoldan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m yine sevgisizlikte??\u2019\u2019 diye kendince hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor\u2026<\/p>\n

KORKU<\/strong> negatif duygular\u0131n ilki\u2026En temeli\u2026 T\u00fcm di\u011ferlerinin ana k\u00f6k\u00fc\u2026.<\/p>\n

Soruyor her hissetti\u011finde: \u2018\u2019 Kim oldu\u011funu, ne oldu\u011funu unuttun mu ger\u00e7ekten?\u00a0Bu evrenin muhte\u015fem i\u015fleyi\u015finin i\u00e7inde, sen ve sana dair olan her\u015feyin de\u00a0muhte\u015fem \u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fcne ne zaman g\u00fcvenmeyi kestin??\u00a0G\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn y\u0131ld\u0131zlar\u0131n, kainat\u0131n t\u00fcm varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7inde var olurken , nefesin seni ayakta\u00a0tutarken etten kemikten g\u00f6z\u00fcken atomlar\u0131n dans\u0131nda, bu kadar muazzamken\u00a0sen, bu kadar e\u015fsiz ve b\u00fcy\u00fcleyiciyken?? Ne oldu sana, nas\u0131l korkars\u0131n\u00a0ger\u00e7ekten??\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

Korku duygusunun hissedilmesi i\u00e7in korkulan \u015feyin, korkandan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck,\u00a0daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, daha y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011funa inan\u0131l\u0131r\u2026\u00a0Korku da alttan f\u0131s\u0131ldar bo\u011fucu hissiyle \u2018\u2019 senden daha b\u00fcy\u00fck hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey olamaz\u00a0senin ger\u00e7e\u011finde, her \u015fey senin denginde ve t\u00fcm g\u00fc\u00e7leri senin verdi\u011fin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde\u2026\u00a0Korkuyla g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc vermeyi kesersen e\u011fer , beslemezsen kendi zihninde yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u00a0canavar\u0131, kuca\u011f\u0131nda \u015firin bir kedici\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrebilirsin kafas\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n o\u00a0korkuyorum dedi\u011fin aslan\u0131\u2026\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk korku nedir bilmez\u2026<\/p>\n

Ya\u015famla okeydir.. \u00d6l\u00fcmle de..<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk korkuyu \u00f6\u011frenir\u2026<\/p>\n

Korku \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6\u011fretilir\u2026<\/p>\n

Korkuyu bilen art\u0131k b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f olan bebeklerin t\u00fcm\u00fc, buram buram salarlar\u00a0korkuyu bedenlerinde y\u00fcr\u00fcrken etrafta, g\u00f6sterirler ve de her yeni bebe\u011fe, bedenlerine miniklerin her sar\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda kodlarlar hatta en derinlerinde\u2026.<\/p>\n

Korku bilinir, korku hissedilir, korku ya\u015fan\u0131r olur hayat\u0131n ilk merhabas\u0131ndan\u00a0sonra, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bebeklerin tenlerinde\u2026.<\/p>\n

A\u00c7G\u00d6ZL\u00dcL\u00dcK<\/strong> var sonras\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

Evren bolluk i\u00e7inde\u2026<\/p>\n

Evren her ihtiya\u00e7 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla bezenmi\u015f ger\u00e7e\u011finde\u2026<\/p>\n

Madde d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n maddesel kurallar\u0131yla, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 y\u00f6neten en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcc\u00fcn sahip\u00a0olman\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fc oldu\u011funun anlat\u0131lmas\u0131yla, maddeye g\u00fc\u00e7 vermeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anda\u00a0ki\u015fi yine g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc kaybediyor\u2026\u00a0G\u00fc\u00e7 kaybettik\u00e7e daha \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7 arzuluyor; daha \u00e7ok istekle daha \u00e7ok sahiplenme\u00a0geliyor, daha \u00e7ok sahiplendik\u00e7e daha \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7 kaybediliyor ve bu bir k\u0131s\u0131r\u00a0d\u00f6ng\u00fcde akarken bo\u015flukta , ki\u015fi kendine huzur, keyif ve \u00e7oskuda hizmet etmesi\u00a0gereken t\u00fcm maddeler taraf\u0131ndan y\u00f6netiliyor.. Madde art\u0131k ki\u015fiye hizmet\u00a0etmiyor, ki\u015fi maddeye hizmet ediyor\u2026Ki\u015fi art\u0131k sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00f6neten ki\u015fi\u00a0olmuyor, sahip oldu\u011funu sand\u0131klar\u0131yla y\u00f6netiliyor\u2026 Verdi\u011fi t\u00fcm g\u00fc\u00e7le madde\u00a0onun efendisine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrken, ki\u015fi zincire vurulmu\u015f gibi k\u00f6lele\u015fiyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Madde olmas\u0131n demiyoruz biz\u2026<\/p>\n

Olsun\u2026 Mutlu olsun, \u015f\u0131k olsun, ho\u015f olsun, g\u00fczel olsun\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle olsun ki\u2026 Olmasa da olsun.. Hi\u00e7 bir madde ki\u015finin daha \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7mesin\u00a0\u00f6zde, ve hi\u00e7 bir ki\u015fi mal veya p\u0131rlantayla kuklalara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00a0muhte\u015femli\u011fini ta\u015f\u0131rken i\u00e7inde \u2026 Ruhunu maddeye satmaya ba\u015flamas\u0131yla, ba\u015fka\u00a0bir \u015feye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ba\u015fl\u0131yor g\u00f6zlerdeki par\u0131lt\u0131n\u0131n kaybolu\u015fuyla\u2026 \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00a0g\u00fczelli\u011finden daha de\u011ferli oldu\u011funa inand\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131yla,g\u00f6z\u00fcn kaybolan \u0131\u015f\u0131lt\u0131s\u0131na maddeyle \u0131\u015f\u0131lt\u0131 katma \u00e7abas\u0131nda, bebek s\u0131ca\u011f\u0131 ve kokusu\u00a0de\u011fi\u015fiyor, hatta bazen ad\u0131na, B\u00dcY\u00dcMEK<\/strong> deniyor hayat\u0131n tantanas\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

TAHAMM\u00dcLS\u00dcZL\u00dcK<\/strong> i\u00e7imize at\u0131lan ta\u015flar\u0131n ba\u015fka biri\u2026<\/p>\n

Yarg\u0131da duru\u015f\u2026<\/p>\n

Yolumuza \u00e7\u0131kan her canl\u0131 bir sebeple hayat\u0131m\u0131za dokunmu\u015f bir zaman diliminde\u2026 Ama \u00f6z\u00fc g\u00f6remez yarg\u0131, at g\u00f6zl\u00fckleri tak\u0131l\u0131 gibidir g\u00f6zleri\u2026\u00a0B\u00fct\u00fcnden uzak, par\u00e7alara tak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f haliyle noktac\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcr ama b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00a0ba\u015fd\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc ger\u00e7e\u011finden uzakt\u0131r s\u00f6zleri ve hisleri\u2026 Veremez kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcl\u00fc hakk\u0131n\u0131 bu ba\u011flamda\u2026\u00a0Kendini de at g\u00f6zl\u00fckleriyle g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bilir o s\u0131rada ruh konu yarg\u0131 oldu\u011funda\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019Kar\u015f\u0131ndakine bakarken onlarla, takan ki\u015fi sensin asl\u0131nda \u2018\u2019der \u2026 \u2018\u2019Uzakla\u015fma\u00a0benden, g\u00f6r beni\u2019\u2019 der\u2026 Par\u00e7alar\u0131mla ya\u015fama sana verilen k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 inan\u00e7larla,\u00a0yarg\u0131ya girdi\u011finde kendini azaltt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131na var, temizle, hepimiz gelirken\u00a0tanr\u0131n\u0131n kutsal nefesiyle, birbirimize kim oldu\u011fumuzu unutursak hat\u0131latmay\u0131\u00a0hedefledik birli\u011fimizin co\u015fkuda heyecan\u0131yla rolde , yarg\u0131yla buldu\u011fun ta\u015f\u0131 at sisteminden, biraz daha y\u00fcksel al\u0131\u015f\u0131k\u00a0oldu\u011fun g\u00f6klere\u2019\u2019 \u2026<\/p>\n

O hep der\u2026<\/p>\n

Yarg\u0131 \u00f6yle kar\u015f\u0131dad\u0131r ki ama, \u00f6z hep ki\u015finin kendine d\u00f6nmesini bekler\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019Ben \u00f6nemliyim, sen de\u011filsin \u2018\u2019 der EGO\u0130ZM\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019 Ben \u00f6nemliyim, sen de \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlisin\u2019\u2019 der Ben\u2019 cillik\u2026<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131dan uzak yakla\u015f\u0131lan her anda ger\u00e7ekli\u011fe giren her bedenlenmi\u015fe, ki\u015fi bir o\u00a0kadar kendinden uzakla\u015f\u0131r\u2026 Her bireyin i\u00e7indeki \u00f6zsel mucizeyi g\u00f6remeyen ki\u015fi,\u00a0kendindekini de g\u00f6remeyece\u011fi g\u00f6zlerle b\u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr asl\u0131nda, bir fark\u0131na varmak\u00a0kal\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n

\u015eEHVET\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u015eehvet duygusu\u2026<\/p>\n

\u0130ki ruhun beden \u00fczerinden yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 sohbetin, payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n, \u00e7arp\u0131t\u0131lm\u0131\u015f halinin\u00a0\u00e7amura bulanm\u0131\u015f hissi duyguda\u2026<\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131ndakinin ruhunu g\u00f6rmeme\u2026<\/p>\n

Onu bir maddeye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrme arzusu\u2026<\/p>\n

Onun \u00fczerinden kendi bedenine fiziksel merkezde- ruhuna de\u011fil asla- doygunluk\u00a0sa\u011flama \u00e7abas\u0131, zevk verme iste\u011fi\u2026<\/p>\n

Benin ruh , beden ve duygularla \u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f muazzaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, bedenin tekelinde\u00a0b\u0131rakmak ve kendini sadece bedeninle tan\u0131mlama, k\u0131s\u0131tlama, ya\u015fatma\u00a0az\u0131msamas\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n

Kendine ve kar\u015f\u0131nda olana b\u00fct\u00fcnden ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ihanet \u00f6zde, \u00f6z\u00fcn birli\u011finde..<\/p>\n

Azalma\u2026<\/p>\n

A\u015fka \u00e7o\u011falman\u0131n yerini, sadece bedeni tek say\u0131p al\u00e7altma\u2026<\/p>\n

B\u00fct\u00fcnden uzakla\u015fma\u2026<\/p>\n

En muhte\u015fem duyguyu a\u015fkla ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yok etmek i\u00e7in sanki kuyulara ta\u015f\u00a0atma\u2026<\/p>\n

Ruhun g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131 bedenin ard\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

KIZGINLIK<\/strong> var sonras\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

Hakl\u0131 olma ihtiyac\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019Ben \u2018\u2019 bilirim, \u2018\u2019Ben \u2018\u2019 y\u00f6netirim, \u2018\u2019 Ben\u2019\u2019 kurban\u0131m\u2026 \u2018\u2019 Ben\u2019\u2019 her ne ise pe\u015finden\u00a0gelenlerde ya\u015fan\u0131landa\u2026<\/p>\n

Olan\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi g\u00f6rmeme, olan\u0131 kabul etmeme, olanda \u2018\u2019 can\u0131m ac\u0131d\u0131, k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131m,\u00a0incindim, korktum, \u00fcrkt\u00fcm, zay\u0131f hissettim,vs\u2019\u2019 deme cesaretini ve a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u00a0g\u00f6sterememe\u2026 Korumak i\u00e7in kendini sa\u011flam , s\u0131k\u0131, alev alev bir pelerin giyme\u2026<\/p>\n

Ac\u0131tma, k\u0131rma, incitme, korkutma, \u00fcrk\u00fctme, zay\u0131f hissettirmek i\u00e7in abanarak\u00a0duygular\u0131 y\u00f6n de\u011fi\u015ftirtme bazen, bazen kendine bu alevin i\u00e7inde zarar verme\u2026<\/p>\n

G\u00f6z \u0131\u015f\u0131lt\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yerini, kanl\u0131 , da\u011flay\u0131c\u0131 bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n almas\u0131 sonra\u2026 ”Kork benden”\u00a0ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131\u015f\u0131 hep kar\u015f\u0131ya, ac\u0131d\u0131, korkuttu, incitti demeyi g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fczl\u00fck sanman\u0131n\u00a0arkas\u0131nda..<\/p>\n

NEFRET<\/strong> mi?? K\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n art\u0131k ta\u015fla\u015fm\u0131\u015f hali\u2026<\/p>\n

Hapis eden ki\u015fiyi korkular\u0131yla kendi kuyusuna, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6stermesini d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya\u00a0imkans\u0131z k\u0131lan ya\u015famda.. Sadece korkular\u0131yla y\u00f6netilmesi ki\u015finin.. Can\u0131 ac\u0131d\u0131ktan\u00a0sonra can yakana d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmesi, k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131rana , terk edilmi\u015fliklerini terk\u00a0edene d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ferek hayat\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmesi\u2026 Ac\u0131y\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmesi yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde,\u00a0bebekli\u011finin g\u00fczelli\u011fini yitirmesi\u2026 Kal\u0131n duvarlar\u0131n ard\u0131nda, nefessiz kalmas\u0131\u00a0ama en \u00e7ok, k\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131yla ba\u015f edememesinin sonucu, ya\u015famadan hapsetmesi\u00a0ruhunun en g\u00fczelini\u2026<\/p>\n

KISKAN\u00c7LIK\u2026.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do\u011fal\u0131nda de\u011fildir duygu, sonradan \u00f6\u011fretilir insan o\u011fluna ya\u015famda\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6\u011fretilmi\u015f korku ve ya\u015fat\u0131lan de\u011fersizlik hissinin kar\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131 olarak ak\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r\u00a0hayata\u2026<\/p>\n

Hem k\u0131skanan ruha, hem k\u0131skan\u0131lana\u2026 Ne b\u00fcy\u00fck hakarettir asl\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcm \u00fcz\u00fcne sevgide, kalbim se\u00e7imlerine sayg\u0131da demez\u2026<\/p>\n

De\u011fersizli\u011finde \u00a0inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 , ger\u00e7e\u011fi sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcnce kaybedece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u2026<\/p>\n

Korkar\u2026 Delilikler ya\u015famakla me\u015fgulken kafas\u0131nda ona at\u0131lan sanal alg\u0131larda,\u00a0t\u00fcm g\u00fczelliklerini g\u00f6mer bu yap\u0131\u015f yap\u0131\u015f duygunun altlar\u0131na\u2026<\/p>\n

SABIRSIZLIK<\/strong> var s\u0131rada\u2026<\/p>\n

\u0130ki g\u00fczel insan sevi\u015fir.. A\u015fkla.. Bebek dedi\u011fin sonra do\u011far tam 9 ayda..<\/p>\n

Kimse a\u00e7maz o s\u0131rada anneyi,kesmez\u2026 Kimse inanc\u0131n\u0131 yitirmez duydu\u011fu kalp at\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131yla beslenir anne, sevgiyle sar\u0131l\u0131n\u0131r- ki mutlu \u00e7ocuk do\u011fsun d\u00fcnyaya..<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm yarat\u0131m d\u00fcnyada asl\u0131nda ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ya\u015fan\u0131r kendi zaman\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

A\u015fkla istenen her\u015feyin tohumlar\u0131 at\u0131l\u0131r\u2026\u00a0Ki her yarat\u0131m kendi i\u00e7inde bir zaman\u0131 bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olmak i\u00e7in madde\u00a0d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda\u2026\u00a0Sab\u0131rs\u0131z olan de\u015fer her\u015feyi, beslenmeyi ve beslemeyi keser, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr olmad\u0131kca ,hemen inanc\u0131n\u0131 kaybeder, lanete ge\u00e7er\u2026<\/p>\n

Tohum ekilen toprakta g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesi gibi toprak alt\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan filizin.. B\u00fcy\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00a0her yarat\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n

Sab\u0131rs\u0131z ki\u015fi ise sanki s\u00fcrekli kaynar su d\u00f6ker dikilenin \u00fczerine\u2026\u00a0A\u015fka beslemek yerine, yok eder dikileni\u2026\u00a0Ve yarat\u0131m\u0131n muhte\u015femli\u011fini g\u00f6lgeler inan\u00e7s\u0131zlar\u0131n neferi\u2026\u00a0Her \u015fey zaman\u0131n\u0131 bekler ama sab\u0131rs\u0131z bekleyemez ,y\u0131kar , ge\u00e7er, mahfeder a\u015fkla\u00a0yerle\u015ftirileni\u2026Nefes almay\u0131 unutmu\u015f ki\u015fi a\u015f\u0131lanan inan\u00e7s\u0131zl\u0131kta, a\u015fk\u0131n bollu\u011fu\u00a0yerine, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n, inan\u00e7s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ve yok edi\u015fin hissini da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r etraf\u0131na ruhta a\u00e7 kal\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla\u2026<\/p>\n

KANDIRMA; GER\u00c7E\u011e\u0130 PERDELEME; SAM\u0130M\u0130YETTEN UZAK YA\u015eAMA\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6zlemezken \u00f6zledim, sevmezken sevdim , istemezken istedim diyen dillerin\u00a0kaybetme, sevilmeme, \u00e7\u0131kar sa\u011flayamama , kontrol edememe korkusuyla\u2026\u00a0Olduklar\u0131 gibi kabul edilemeyece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen olu\u015fmu\u015f kimliklerin yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 yan\u00a0duygular dumanl\u0131 , gri duru\u015flar\u0131yla\u2026<\/p>\n

K\u0130B\u0130R\u2026<\/strong> BEN BEN BEN \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131 birlikten uzak\u2026<\/p>\n

ZAL\u0130ML\u0130K<\/strong> ac\u0131yla sar\u0131nm\u0131\u015f,ac\u0131yan \u00a0hissini b\u0131rakmak yerine ac\u0131yla ya\u015famay\u0131 se\u00e7mi\u015fli\u011fin\u00a0ac\u0131 yaratma arzusu t\u00fcm o bilinciyle ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

Ona eri\u015fen her bireyin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu unutup MERHAMETS\u0130Z<\/strong> ya\u015famaya\u00a0kendini adama \u2026. Buz g\u00f6zlerin arkas\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

ADALETS\u0130ZL\u0130K\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6nce kendine sonra ya\u015fam\u0131na dokunan her ruha..<\/p>\n

Dengeyi bozma muazzam dengesinde yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131n, kendi dengesini bozmas\u0131\u00a0ki\u015finin merkesinden uzakla\u015f\u0131p\u2026\u00a0Denge bozulunca ruhun ak\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 uzakla\u015ft\u0131rma kaynaktan ve beslenmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma\u00a0sonra ba\u015fka g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015flerin ve tebess\u00fcmlerin yak\u0131n\u0131nda..\u00a0E\u015fitli\u011fi koruyamama hem ili\u015fkilerinde hem davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda, kurban duru\u015funun\u00a0ona getirdi\u011fi s\u00fcrekli almaya al\u0131\u015fk\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

\u0130FT\u0130RA \u2026.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00fcm varsay\u0131mlarla hayat\u0131 y\u00f6netme arzusu en derinde\u2026\u00a0Bilmedi\u011fini, g\u00f6rmedi\u011fini, duymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, y\u00fczle\u015fmedi\u011fini bilir sanma, payla\u015fma\u2026\u00a0Ger\u00e7eklikte olmayan\u0131 ger\u00e7ekli\u011fe ve ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin de\u011ferli vaktine ta\u015f\u0131ma\u2026\u00a0Yapabilece\u011fi bir d\u00fcnya i\u015f varken , yaratabilece\u011fi bir d\u00fcnya muazzaml\u0131k,\u00a0ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yap\u0131p yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bile emin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerle vakit harcama..\u00a0DED\u0130KODUYLA<\/strong> kolkola ge\u00e7en anlar\u2026\u00a0Yarat\u0131m\u0131 , ger\u00e7eklikten uza\u011fa ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131p heba etme ruhun zenginli\u011fini her hayata\u00a0ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6Z\u00dc S\u00d6Z\u00dc AYRI olmas\u0131<\/strong> ki\u015finin\u2026 \u0130nand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fmamas\u0131, konu\u015ftu\u011fundan ayr\u0131\u00a0ya\u015famas\u0131\u2026 B\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde olmayan ki\u015finin davran\u0131\u015f\u0131\u2026 Her neyse onu ortaya\u00a0koyamama, korku yine en derininde, de\u011fer bulma arzusu de\u011fersizlik hissiyle\u2026<\/p>\n

KANDIRMA<\/strong>ya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma kendi i\u00e7inde minik SAHTEKARLIK<\/strong>larla.. Ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi\u00a0b\u00fckme arzusu bolca zaman kaybederken ve kaybettirirken ruhsal yolda\u015flar\u0131na\u00a0bedene b\u00fcr\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc haliyle ya\u015famda\u2026<\/p>\n

END\u0130\u015eE\u2026<\/strong>Korkunun inceltilmi\u015f hali\u2026 Ve dalgalar\u0131n koca kayalar\u0131 minicik\u00a0kayalara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmesi gibi, koca ruhu yavas yava\u015f dalgalarla yere yap\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran his\u00a0en fark edilmez haliyle zararda..<\/p>\n

HASET\u2026<\/strong> K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n ta\u015fla\u015fm\u0131\u015f hali art\u0131k zarar verme istedi\u011finde yine ayr\u0131\u00a0g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131 kimli\u011fine\u2026<\/p>\n

KARARSIZLIK\u2026<\/strong>\u00a0Bo\u015flukta ya\u015fama\u2026 Enerjinin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde ruhun a\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda,\u00a0ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin yoklu\u011funda, \u00f6\u011fretinin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 , korkuyla k\u0131p\u0131rt\u0131s\u0131z kalm\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ak\u0131tmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlarda ruhunun yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm bu duygulara bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda\u2026<\/p>\n

Negatif yap\u0131\u015f yap\u0131\u015f yeni do\u011fan bebek halimizden bizi d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc\u00a0canavarlara\u2026<\/p>\n

\u0130ki \u00f6z duygu kal\u0131yor asl\u0131nda :<\/p>\n

SEVG\u0130 ve KORKU en derinde yarat\u0131m\u0131nda t\u00fcm duygularda\u2026<\/p>\n

SEVG\u0130YLE al\u0131nan her karar, yap\u0131lan her davran\u0131\u015f, duyulan her his, s\u00f6ylenen her his\u00a0a\u015fk\u0131, \u015fevkati, mutlulu\u011fu, tutkuyu, co\u015fkuyu, ne\u015feyi, e\u011flenceyi, de\u011ferlilik hissini,\u00a0ba\u015far\u0131 duygusunu, b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck, kabul g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u00fck, e\u015fsizlik ve bir d\u00fcnya incecik,\u00a0kanatl\u0131, \u0131\u015f\u0131lt\u0131l\u0131 histe titre\u015ftirirken bizi\u2026.<\/p>\n

KORKUYLA al\u0131nan her karar, yap\u0131lan her davran\u0131\u015f, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclen her d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce\u00a0k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, haset, korku, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k, endi\u015fe ve yukar\u0131da yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n\u00a0balc\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u00e7ekiyor ki\u015fiyi kalpte \u2026<\/p>\n

Atam\u0131yor kalp\u2026<\/p>\n

I\u015f\u0131ld\u0131yam\u0131yor g\u00f6z\u2026<\/p>\n

G\u00f6remiyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Duyam\u0131yor ger\u00e7e\u011fi kulaklar\u2026<\/p>\n

Beden hissettmiyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Ve kalabal\u0131klara bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ki\u015fi\u2026.Aynada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ya da\u2026\u00a0Daha \u00e7ok korkuyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Bebeklerimiz hep sevgide b\u00fcy\u00fcr olsun..<\/p>\n

Her kararlar\u0131 sevgiyle alanlarla b\u00fcy\u00fcs\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n

Tenlerine Sevginin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bir \u015fey dokunmas\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n

Sevginin ad\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, endi\u015fe, ve korkuyla bulanmas\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n

Bebek odas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde gibi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, bebek odas\u0131nda bak\u0131l\u0131r gibi\u00a0g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz, g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fczle ger\u00e7e\u011fimizin birli\u011finde en zay\u0131f halimizle ya\u015fam\u00a0buldu\u011fumuz g\u00fczelliklerle donand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir \u00f6mr\u00fc ya\u015famak esas olsun\u2026<\/p>\n

Kendi bebek odam\u0131z\u0131n yolunu hep bildi\u011fimiz \u2026<\/p>\n

Kendimizi \u00f6yle sar\u0131p sarmalad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle sarmalanmaya izin verdi\u011fimiz\u2026<\/p>\n

G\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fczelliklerimizle kabul edenlerle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n

Ve hep o g\u00f6zleri koruyabildi\u011fimiz anlar\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc olsun \u00f6l\u00fcme giden\u00a0yolculu\u011fumuzdaki anlar\u0131m\u0131z\u2026.<\/p>\n

Bebek kadar temiz ya\u015famak and\u0131m\u0131z olsun \u00e7abam\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde\u2026<\/p>\n

Sevgi istedi\u011fimizde s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz, istemedi\u011fimiz hi\u00e7 bir\u015feyi yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z,\u00a0kendimizi kimseyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve geldi\u011fimiz yeri hep hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u00a0bilincimizde\u2026<\/p>\n

Sevgimle,<\/p>\n

Banu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Duygular\u0131n en y\u00fckse\u011finde do\u011far\u0131z hepimiz\u2026 Bebek kokusundan bahseder insanlar: tenin tazeli\u011finden, duru\u015fun\u00a0masumiyetinden\u2026 Bir dokunabilmek i\u00e7in, sar\u0131p sarmalayabilmek i\u00e7in, kucakta tutup, \u00f6ylece\u00a0bakabilmek i\u00e7in kalp at\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z h\u0131zlan\u0131r bazen\u2026 Bebek odas\u0131n\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131nda kal\u0131veriririz […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-460","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/460","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=460"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/460\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1665,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/460\/revisions\/1665"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=460"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=460"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=460"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}