{"id":370,"date":"2015-01-31T20:24:03","date_gmt":"2015-01-31T18:24:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=370"},"modified":"2020-06-16T09:21:36","modified_gmt":"2020-06-16T06:21:36","slug":"sebelek-suratlar-deniyormus-mutlu-insanlara","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=370","title":{"rendered":"\u015eebelek Suratlar Deniyormu\u015f Mutlu \u0130nsanlara\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/dahlia-4902421_960_720.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1656\" src=\"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/dahlia-4902421_960_720.jpg\" alt=\"dahlia-4902421_960_720\" width=\"960\" height=\"677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/dahlia-4902421_960_720.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/dahlia-4902421_960_720-300x211.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/dahlia-4902421_960_720-800x564.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a>Mutlu olmak i\u00e7in her\u015feyi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, bazen mutluluklara d\u00f6n\u00fcveriyoruz s\u0131rt\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve g\u00f6rmeyi reddediyoruz sanki mutluluklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>K\u00f6t\u00fc hissettiren t\u00fcm olaylar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan saatlerce gidebilecekken, mutlu eden her\u015feyi zaten olmas\u0131 gereken gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcveriyoruz sanki\u2026 Ya\u015farken de\u011fil de, kaybedince fark\u0131nda vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ya\u015fant\u0131lar b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc gibi dikiliveriyorlar sanki \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcze\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Elele dergisi bir kitap\u00e7\u0131k haz\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f: mutlu olmak i\u00e7in ne \u00e7ok sebebimiz var, acaba bunlar neler diye\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bunlar da benden d\u00f6k\u00fclenler\u2026<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Yorum b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc var altta, yaz\u0131n\u0131n tam alt\u0131nda; ekleyin beni, \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131n beni, mutlu olduklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 birbirimize hat\u0131rlat\u0131p, besleyelim, \u015fenlendirelim, g\u00fcl\u00fcmsetelim birbirimizi\u2026 \u0130sterseniz tabi\u2026.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sevdi\u011fimiz bir insan\u0131n kokusunu zihnimizden \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmak zorunda de\u011filsek, ve canl\u0131 canl\u0131 koklayabiliyorsak O\u2019nu her istedi\u011fimizde\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Yedi\u011fimiz her lezzet, kolayca sindilirilip, bedenin mucizesinde ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p, par\u00e7alan\u0131p, gerekmeyenler kolayl\u0131kla bedenimizi terk edebiliyorsa her g\u00fcn\u2026<\/li>\n<li>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n t\u00fcm renklerini, g\u00fcn do\u011farken, g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde, g\u00fcn batarken ve y\u0131ld\u0131zlar\u0131n dans\u0131nda yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kompozisyonlar\u0131yla t\u00fcm \u015fiirselli\u011fiyle g\u00f6rebiliyorsak canl\u0131 g\u00f6zlerimizle\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Beethoven\u2019\u0131n y\u00fczy\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinden ruhunun t\u00fcm t\u0131n\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 senfonisini dinlerken, kula\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan beynimize, oradan vucudumuza yay\u0131l\u0131yorsa ruhu, ruhumuza dokunabiliyorsa sonra ve kalbimizin en derininde tutkusuyla hissedebiliyorsak i\u00e7imizde\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131miz bir insana \u2018G\u00fcnayd\u0131n\u2019 deme cesaretimiz varsa , bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne \u2018\u2019 Koca bir g\u00fcl\u00fcmseme alabiliyorsak yolda\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Mevsimlerin de\u011fi\u015fimine \u015fahitlik ederken, hayat\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fimlerden ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmlerden ibaret oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliyorsa zihnimiz\u2026 So\u011fuk g\u00fcnlerinde \u015f\u00f6minenin huzuru ve rahat\u0131 gibi, zor g\u00fcnlerimizde s\u0131cac\u0131k dostlar beliriveriyorlarsa kap\u0131da\u2026<\/li>\n<li>O cep telefonunun faturas\u0131, sabah ki \u015fampuan\u0131n kokusu, du\u015fta akan suyun paras\u0131 \u00a0.-) \u00f6denebiliyorsa her ay d\u00fczenli\u2026 D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclm\u00fcyorsa bile hatta, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmeye gerek olmuyorsa\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Kap\u0131m\u0131z \u00e7al\u0131yorsa ans\u0131z\u0131n ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131rken bir anda, yan kom\u015fu elinde bir tepsiyle bekliyorsa \u2018\u2019 Ho\u015f geldiniz\u2019\u2019 diye\u2026 Dostlar\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmalar\u0131na imkan verecek yeni ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7lar yapmaya c\u00fcret edebilme g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131yorsa bize bu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma\u2026 Koca bir &#8221; Aferin &#8216; geciyorsa i\u00e7inizden, kalbinize, kendinize do\u011fru\u2026Ve \u015f\u00fckranla doluyorsa g\u00f6zleriniz kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda size g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen g\u00f6zlere, bu hissi ya\u015faman\u0131za izin verdi\u011fi i\u00e7in\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Lunapark\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnden ge\u00e7erken hala z\u0131p z\u0131p ediyorsa kalbimiz, hatta bazen delilik yap\u0131p dal\u0131ver\u0131yorsak i\u00e7eri \u00a0 ve \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011fa kahkahalar\u0131 yay\u0131yorsak etrafa\u2026<\/li>\n<li>G\u00f6nl\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn istedi\u011fi elleri tutuyorsak sadece, sadece istediklerimize sar\u0131l\u0131yorsak bu d\u00fcnyada ve bedenimizin t\u00fcm haklar\u0131 t\u00fcm \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcyle bizimse anda\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Aynada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcze, o g\u00fczellik abidesine.-), g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyebiliyorsak her g\u00f6z g\u00f6ze geldi\u011fimizde\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Evde ya da i\u015fte.. \u00c7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsak, bizim eme\u011fimizden \u00e7\u0131kan\u0131n insanlara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ferek ula\u015fmas\u0131na \u015fahitlik edebiliyorsak verimi ve mutlulu\u011fu artt\u0131rarak\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Bug\u00fcn bu yaz\u0131ya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda okuyabiliyorsak.. E\u011fitim, \u00f6\u011fretim hakk\u0131yla \u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015fsek, kendimizi geli\u015ftirmek ve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek sadece bizim i\u00e7in bir se\u00e7imse, keyfimizse\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Her g\u00fcn uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda s\u0131cak yata\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u2018\u2019 D\u00fcnde ne olduysa oldu, bug\u00fcn yeni bir g\u00fcn ve ben bu g\u00fcn\u00fcmde muhte\u015fem hissetmeyi se\u00e7iyorum\u2019\u2019 diyebilecek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe sahipsek \u00f6nce zihnimizde sonra hayatsal se\u00e7imlerimizde\u2026<\/li>\n<li>\u2018\u2019Nas\u0131ls\u0131n bakiim sen bug\u00fcn? \u00d6zledim seni\u2026\u2019\u2019 Diye arayan bir sese \u2018\u2019Alo\u2019\u2019 diyorsak, diyebiliyorsak \u00a0g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Ya\u015fam alan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sevgiyle ba\u015fka canl\u0131larla payla\u015fabiliyorsak; sabah kalk\u0131nca sokulan bir kafa, pati atan iki g\u00f6z, g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyen \u00e7i\u00e7ekler ya da yapraklar varsa evimizde, yolumuzda, i\u015fimizde ve biz bunlar\u0131 fark edebiliyorsak\u2026<\/li>\n<li>D\u00fcnyada bug\u00fcn ne olduysa oldu deyip, hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey olmasa bile anda Friends&#8217;de Joey&#8217;nin yapt\u0131klar\u0131na g\u00fclebiliyorsa surat\u0131m\u0131zda \u00f6nce yanaklar, sonra bedeninimizde g\u00f6bekteki en derin kaslar\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Jason Mraz \u2018\u2019I won\u2019t Give Up\u2019\u2019 derken fonda, \u2018\u2019asla senden vazge\u00e7meyece\u011fim bu hayatta, seni yar\u0131 yolda b\u0131rakmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u2019\u2019\u0131 m\u00fcziklerken bir \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimiz akl\u0131m\u0131zda, kalbimizde, tebess\u00fcm\u00fcm\u00fczde, ilk ve \u00f6nce de\u011ferlimize d\u00f6n\u00fcyorsa ellerimiz.. Kendimize\u2026. Beraber do\u011fup, beraber \u00f6lece\u011fimize\u2026 Ve onu d\u00fczg\u00fcn yedirip, d\u00fczg\u00fcn uyutup, d\u00fczg\u00fcn sevip, koruyup kollay\u0131p y\u00fcr\u00fcyebiliyorsak hayatta\u2026 Sayg\u0131yla, \u00f6zenle, \u015fevkatle, anlay\u0131\u015fla hep en iyiye do\u011fru d\u00f6nmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsak hayatta\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Her\u015feyle ve her\u015feye ra\u011fmen hala hayattaysak, olan her\u015feyden daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, daha ger\u00e7ek oldu\u011fumuzun fark\u0131ndaysak\u2026<\/li>\n<li>T\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 unuttu\u011fumuz anlarda bir sevgiliden, bir kitaptan, bir dergiden, bir blogdan\u2026 \u2018\u2019Elele\u2019\u2019 ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011fumuz hayattan mutlu olman\u0131n bizim ilk ve en \u00f6nce hakk\u0131m\u0131z oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatacak dostlar\u0131m\u0131z varsa etraf\u0131m\u0131zda\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Mutlulu\u011fun bir se\u00e7im oldu\u011funun ve bu \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde bizde oldu\u011funu en derinimizde biliyoruz asl\u0131nda demektir.. De\u011fil mi??<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fczelliklerin tamam\u0131n\u0131 hak etti\u011fimize inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve bu inanc\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fimiz yapabilece\u011fimizi bildi\u011fimiz, mutlu anlar\u0131n bile\u015fkesini Hayat diye, hayat\u0131m diye and\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z anlar\u0131n toplam\u0131 olsun \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Banu<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mutlu olmak i\u00e7in her\u015feyi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken, bazen mutluluklara d\u00f6n\u00fcveriyoruz s\u0131rt\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve g\u00f6rmeyi reddediyoruz sanki mutluluklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131\u2026 K\u00f6t\u00fc hissettiren t\u00fcm olaylar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan saatlerce gidebilecekken, mutlu eden her\u015feyi zaten olmas\u0131 gereken gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcveriyoruz [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-370","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=370"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2119,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/370\/revisions\/2119"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=370"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=370"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=370"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}