{"id":297,"date":"2015-01-12T11:56:06","date_gmt":"2015-01-12T09:56:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=297"},"modified":"2023-06-03T09:46:06","modified_gmt":"2023-06-03T06:46:06","slug":"297","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=297","title":{"rendered":"Her Birey Evreni Olu\u015fturuyorsa Anda?"},"content":{"rendered":"

En \u00e7ok kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan, en \u00e7ok kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lan, uygulamada en \u00e7ok zorlan\u0131lan \u015fey sanki: \u00d6z\u00fc bilmek, \u00f6z\u00fc g\u00f6rmek, \u00f6z\u00fc sevmek \u2013 kimli\u011fi g\u00f6rmek  <\/span>ve bu ikisi aras\u0131nda hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc koruyarak ili\u015fkileri y\u00f6netebilmek\u2026<\/p>\n

 \u00d6z muhte\u015femdir\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z kim oldu\u011funu bilendir\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z en y\u00fcksek olas\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131ndad\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc bilir, birlik ve b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7izgisizli\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcn \u015fifalanmaya ihtiyac\u0131 yoktur\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z, herkesin ad\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcnde ,\u00f6z\u00fcndedir\u2026<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7 bitmeyen bir \u00e7a\u011flayan gibidir:s\u00fcrekli taze, s\u00fcrekli kayna\u011f\u0131n temizli\u011findedir\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z e\u015fsizdir..<\/p>\n

\u00d6z naiftir\u2026 Sevgide ve sevgidendir\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z var olu\u015fun m\u00fckemmel a\u011f\u0131n\u0131n h\u00fccre ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131r\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z varl\u0131kt\u0131r.. Ger\u00e7ektir.. Tek ger\u00e7ekli\u011fe mercektir\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z her\u015feydir;her\u015fey oldu\u011funun bilinciyle,yarg\u0131s\u0131zca b\u00fcy\u00fcyerek geni\u015fleyen\u2026<\/p>\n

Ve bu b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde beden \u00fczerinden akmaya izin verdi\u011finde her var olu\u015funu kabullenen ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 korkusuzca se\u00e7ebilendir..<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm bu bili\u015fi ve olu\u015fu y\u00fcz\u00fcnden \u00f6z g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr\u2026<\/p>\n

Evet Korkusuzdur\u2026 Evet Yarg\u0131s\u0131zd\u0131r.. Ama asla \u015fuursuz de\u011fildir\u2026<\/p>\n

Sonra bazen ite kaka, d\u00f6ve par\u00e7alaya\u2026<\/p>\n

Bazen seve ok\u015faya\u2026Sar\u0131p sarmalamayla\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcn \u00fczerine tabaka tabaka yerle\u015fmeye ba\u015flar hayat\u2026<\/p>\n

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T\u00fcm inan\u00e7lar ki\u015fiye a\u015f\u0131lanan, t\u00fcm ya\u015fant\u0131lar ki\u015fiye sunulan, t\u00fcm davran\u0131\u015flar ki\u015fide onaylanan ya da zorlanan, katman katman sarmaya ba\u015flar ki\u015finin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019\u00d6z\u00fcnde iyi bir insan..\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok duymu\u015fsunuzdur bu laf\u0131, \u00e7ok s\u00f6ylemi\u015fsinizdir hatta belki\u2026<\/p>\n

Ama\u2026 Biraz daha geni\u015fletirsek konsepti; \u00d6z\u00fcnde iyi, muhte\u015fem, b\u00fct\u00fcn, \u015fevkatli, muazzam, muhte\u015fem, e\u015fsiz, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, \u015fevkatli, de\u011ferli, \u00f6zg\u00fcr, ger\u00e7ek, erdemli, sevgi dolu, sevilesi, b\u00fcy\u00fcleyici ve her\u015feydir her ki\u015fi\u2026<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u00f6z\u00fcn \u00fczerine bindirilmi\u015f her\u015fey, ger\u00e7ek oldu\u011funa inand\u0131r\u0131lan, korunmaya gerek oldu\u011fu  <\/span>d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fclen, korkulan, yarg\u0131lanan, sevilmeye lay\u0131k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 inanc\u0131yla \u00f6r\u00fclen.. Ve daha bir d\u00fcnyas\u0131 belki\u2026 Ki\u015finin elinden \u00f6z\u00fcn g\u00f6zlerini al\u0131yor hayatta.. Hayat\u0131 y\u00f6netirken bir kimlik belirleniyor t\u00fcm bu olan biten safsatalarda ve ki\u015fi ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zsel fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan de\u011fil, kimliksel yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131ndan y\u00f6netmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor\u2026<\/p>\n

Madde d\u00fcnyas\u0131 kimlikleri ya\u015fam\u0131n i\u00e7inde \u00f6nemsiyor, gerekli buluyor, hayata kendini yayarken bir bilin\u00e7 t\u00fcl\u00fcne sar\u0131nman\u0131 istiyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Ve ekliyor: kim oldu\u011funu bil, oldu\u011funu hayata ta\u015f\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn her damlac\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bedenin ve bilincin \u00fczerinden de hayata ak\u0131tabilirsin, yapabilirsin, yap diyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Ki\u015fi korkular\u0131yla bunu g\u00f6rmezden gelmek istiyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Sar\u0131l\u0131yor, sarmalan\u0131yor, t\u00fcl de\u011fil art\u0131k ta\u015ftan duvarlarla kimli\u011fini sertle\u015ftiriyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Sertle\u015ftirdik\u00e7e  <\/span>daha \u00e7ok k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131yor, k\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131k\u00e7a daha \u00e7ok etraf\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6r\u00fcyor..<\/p>\n

Ona sadece  <\/span>kendini hapis etmekle kalm\u0131yor , yan\u0131na yakla\u015fan herkesi de duvara \u00e7arpm\u0131\u015f hissiyle ac\u0131t\u0131yor art\u0131k \u00e7oktan ger\u00e7e\u011fi oldu\u011funa inand\u0131\u011f\u0131yla\u2026<\/p>\n

Do\u011fum odalar\u0131  <\/span>hastanelerin..<\/p>\n

\u00d6z\u00fcn ilk bedenlenmesine \u015fahitlik\u2026<\/p>\n

Her birine e\u015fit hayranl\u0131kla bak\u0131lan o mabed\u2026<\/p>\n

Her birimizin geldi\u011fi yer\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019Sonra ne oluyor diye?\u2019\u2019  <\/span>yap\u0131lan sorgulamalar bazen\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019Bu\u2019\u2019 oluyor i\u015fte\u2026<\/p>\n

Korku ve getirdi\u011fi t\u00fcm bal\u00e7\u0131k bilin\u00e7, o essizli\u011fi yok etmiyor.. Sadece \u00d6rt\u00fcyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Her birinin g\u00f6z\u00fcne bak\u0131p \u00d6z\u00fc g\u00f6rmek ki\u015finin \u00d6z\u00fcnde olmas\u0131n\u0131 gerektiriyor\u2026<\/p>\n

Her birinin g\u00f6z\u00fcne bak\u0131p, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcrken, kimli\u011fine \u2018\u2019Benden uzak dur\u2019\u2019 diyebilmekse, ki\u015finin kendine sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ve sevgisini gerektiriyor\u2026<\/p>\n

G\u00fc\u00e7 talep ediyor\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019 Ger\u00e7e\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum, ger\u00e7e\u011fini seviyorum, kendine inand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n yalanlar\u0131n hi\u00e7 birini kendi ger\u00e7e\u011fime katmamay\u0131, senin ger\u00e7e\u011finde kendini sevmedi\u011fin taraf\u0131ndan olu\u015fturdu\u011fun  <\/span>yan\u0131n\u0131 benim enerjimin hi\u00e7 bir t\u0131n\u0131s\u0131yla beslememeyi se\u00e7iyorum\u2026 Seni seviyorum\u2026 Deneyimlemek istedi\u011fin her\u015feye sayg\u0131 duyuyorum\u2026 Ama Sevgiyle almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n hi\u00e7 bir karar\u0131n, sayg\u0131yla bezemedi\u011fin hi\u00e7 bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n yan\u0131nda var olmamay\u0131 se\u00e7iyorum\u2026 Kayna\u011f\u0131 korku ve sevgisizlik olan havuzunun i\u00e7ini varl\u0131\u011f\u0131mla beslememeyi se\u00e7iyorum\u2026 Ne kadar beslenmezse o kadar dibinin gelece\u011fini ve korku kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kuruyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyorum\u2026O ana gelene kadar, sevgisizlik ve korkuyla sarmalanm\u0131\u015f bedeninin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 her harekette, s\u00f6yledi\u011fi her s\u00f6zde, bir par\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 k\u0131y\u0131nda olmay\u0131 se\u00e7en insanlara y\u00f6neltece\u011finin bilinciyle\u2026 \u00d6z\u00fcnden konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n, davranmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n, ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n anlarda civarda olmamay\u0131 se\u00e7iyorum..\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n

Kimse durup dururken bir tecav\u00fczc\u00fcye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fmez bebek odas\u0131na d\u00f6nersek yine\u2026<\/p>\n

Korkusu olmayan hi\u00e7 kimse yalan s\u00f6ylemez\u2026 Arkadan i\u015fler \u00e7evirmez..<\/p>\n

Korunma ihtiyac\u0131 olmayan hi\u00e7 kimse , can\u0131 bir zamanlar feci feci yanmam\u0131\u015f, ve tabi hala ate\u015fini koruyan- hala yanan, hala ac\u0131da-etraf\u0131na koca koca duvarlar \u00f6rmez\u2026 Yakla\u015fmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131 kendine, y\u0131k\u0131p par\u00e7alamaya, yok etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz..<\/p>\n

Sevilmeye lay\u0131k oldu\u011funu unutmayan hi\u00e7 kimse, sevgi alabilmek i\u00e7in ger\u00e7e\u011fini yok etmez, man\u00fcpile etmez, alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc sevgi i\u00e7in bedeller \u00f6detmesi gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmez..<\/p>\n

Ger\u00e7e\u011fini ya\u015famayan ki\u015fiye, di\u011fer ki\u015filerden toplamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey yetmez\u2026<\/p>\n

T\u00fckenir\u2026 T\u00fcketir yetece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen egosuyla etraf\u0131nda olmay\u0131 se\u00e7enleri\u2026<\/p>\n

Kendi yokluk bilincini b\u00fcy\u00fcterek, geli\u015ftirerek, besleyerek enerji alan\u0131nda \u00e7engelledi\u011fi t\u00fcm bireyler ve o bireylerin kimliklerinden yay\u0131lan t\u0131n\u0131lar\u0131yla olu\u015fturdu\u011fu ger\u00e7ekli\u011finde, ilerler d\u00fcnya gezegeninde\u2026<\/p>\n

Burada ba\u015fka bir sorumluluk geliyor her bilince:<\/p>\n

Hangi ger\u00e7ekli\u011fi besliyoruz biz ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z evrende? Hangi enerjileri fazlala\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yoruz, hangi a\u011fac\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 suluyoruz, hangi meyvayla beslenmeyi se\u00e7iyoruz akabinde?<\/p>\n

\u0130ki temel duyguyla y\u00f6netiliyor t\u00fcm ger\u00e7eklik\u2026<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm pozitif duygular tek kaynaktan geliyor: sevgi\u2026<\/p>\n

T\u00fcm negatif duygular tek kaynaktan geliyor: korku\u2026<\/p>\n

Zihin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor, inan\u0131yor\u2026<\/p>\n

His geliyor pe\u015finden ve beden t\u00fcm titre\u015fimi yayarken hayata, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla bunu yay\u0131yor, etkile\u015fime a\u00e7\u0131yor, daha fazlas\u0131n\u0131 yarat\u0131yor\u2026<\/p>\n

Ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f iki ayr\u0131 duygudan gelebilir\u2026 G\u00f6recek g\u00f6zden \u00e7ok hissedecek beden gerekir:<\/p>\n

Bir insan\u0131 \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fin i\u00e7in y\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00fclebilirsin.. Bir insan\u0131 kaybetmekten- stat\u00fcn\u00fc kaybetmekten- d\u00fczenini bozmaktan- kazan\u00e7 elde etmek i\u00e7in ( kazanc\u0131n\u0131n senden de\u011fil o insandan geldi\u011fine dair ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131lan inan\u00e7tan)-k\u0131saca \u00e7ok korktu\u011fun i\u00e7in bir yerlerde bir ki\u015finin y\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00fclebilirsin\u2026<\/p>\n

Bir insan\u0131 yan\u0131nda isteyebilirsin, hayat\u0131nda: zenginli\u011fini payla\u015fmak, hayata \u015fahitli\u011finde bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7o\u011faltmak\u2026 Ve sevgiyle yap\u0131labilecek bir d\u00fcnyas\u0131 i\u00e7in\u2026 Ya da.. sadece yanl\u0131zl\u0131k korkun, O olmadan eksik oldu\u011funa inanc\u0131n, kendinle ba\u015fba\u015fa kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yans\u0131ma yapaca\u011f\u0131n kimsenin kalmamas\u0131yla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kamamaya dair duyulan b\u00fcy\u00fck korku sebebiyle\u2026<\/p>\n

Bir insana hediyeler alabilirsin\u2026 Hizmet edebilirsin\u2026 Kendinden akan\u0131 payla\u015fman\u0131n hazz\u0131yla her an\u0131nda kendini mutlu etti\u011fini, sevgiyi \u015f\u0131kl\u0131kla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilerek\u2026<\/p>\n

Bunun tam tersi gibi g\u00f6z\u00fcken de mevcut tabi ki\u2026<\/p>\n

Bir insan\u0131 kendi cehenneminden ge\u00e7erken hi\u00e7 aramamay\u0131 se\u00e7ebilirsin\u2026 Tamamen sevgiden, g\u00fcvenden ve bu kaynaktan beslenen her\u015feyden\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2018\u2019 Ge\u00e7ti\u011fin s\u00fcrece sayg\u0131 duyuyorum, sana g\u00fcveniyorum, ger\u00e7ekli\u011finde kendine inanarak ve g\u00fcvenerek yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n bu deneyimde felaket alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131ndaki \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc g\u00f6rebilmek i\u00e7in gereken temizlenme s\u00fcrecinde \u00f6z\u00fcnle yapaca\u011f\u0131n sohbetleri b\u00f6lmemeyi se\u00e7iyorum\u2026 Bize inan\u0131yorum\u2026Deste\u011fe ihtiyac\u0131n oldu\u011fu her an- ac\u0131maya de\u011fil-  <\/span>her\u015feyimle her\u015feyinin hizmetinde oldu\u011funu bildi\u011fini biliyorum.. \u2018\u2019 demek var sevgide\u2026<\/p>\n

Ya da \u2018\u2019 bu pisli\u011fi hayat\u0131ma bula\u015ft\u0131rmamay\u0131 se\u00e7iyorum\u2019\u2019 diyebilir ki\u015fi\u2026 Bula\u015f\u0131rsa kayna\u011f\u0131nda yeterli sevgi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in y\u0131kanamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n korkusuyla\u2026 Korkuyla \u00f6r\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f, \u2018\u2019 Bu k\u00f6t\u00fc\u2019\u2019 alg\u0131s\u0131yla\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00c7ok \u00f6zel bir d\u00f6nem \u015fu an i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n

Sevgiyle ya\u015famay\u0131, yaratmay\u0131, davranmay\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz anlar\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc olsun \u00f6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u2026<\/p>\n

Sevgiden mi, korkudan m\u0131 diye kendimizi histe ve davran\u0131\u015fta g\u00f6rebilecek  <\/span>g\u00f6n\u00fcl g\u00f6z\u00fcnde olsun bak\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n

Blog da ba\u015fka  bir  yaz\u0131\u2026 Niyet Denizinde Y\u00fczmek Anda<\/a>\u2026<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcn duas\u0131 yine bu dakikada\u2026<\/p>\n

Sar\u0131l\u0131yorum ekrana de\u011fen her ruha\u2026<\/p>\n

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