{"id":1780,"date":"2021-07-19T23:09:39","date_gmt":"2021-07-19T20:09:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=1780"},"modified":"2021-07-19T23:09:39","modified_gmt":"2021-07-19T20:09:39","slug":"guven","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=1780","title":{"rendered":"G\u00fcven&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcven konusunu anlatmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda biraz ortal\u0131k kar\u0131\u015f\u0131yor ama madem sormu\u015fsunuz ben de anlataca\u011f\u0131m yine\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019 Ona \u00e7ok g\u00fcvenmi\u015ftim\u2026hayallerim yerle bir oldu\u2026\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019 Bu hareketimle g\u00fcvenimi yerle bir etti, bir daha nas\u0131l toparlar\u0131m bilmiyorum\u2026\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019 O bile bana bunu yapt\u0131ysa bir daha birisine nas\u0131l g\u00fcvenebilirim hi\u00e7 fikrim yok\u2026 \u2018\u2019<\/p>\n<p>diye diye ba\u015flayan \u00e7ok c\u00fcmle duymu\u015fsunuz, hatta s\u00f6ylemi\u015fsinizdir\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u015eimdi durum \u015f\u00f6yle\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>D\u0131\u015far\u0131da bir \u015feye g\u00fcvenmekten bahsetti\u011fimiz her an asl\u0131nda g\u00fcvenmeyi se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz \u015feyin ne oldu\u011funa dikkat ediyor olmal\u0131y\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Bir insan\u0131n duru\u015fu ise g\u00fcvendiklerimiz\u2026 De\u011fi\u015febilir\u2026<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li>Bir insan\u0131n inand\u0131klar\u0131 ise g\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz\u2026 De\u011fi\u015febilir\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Bir insan\u0131n ya\u015fam \u015fekli ise g\u00fcvendiklerimiz\u2026 De\u011fi\u015febilir\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Maddi durumu ise g\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz\u2026 De\u011fi\u015febilir\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Hisleri ise g\u00fcvendi\u011fimiz\u2026 De\u011fi\u015febilir\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Daha yazar\u0131m\u2026 Ama anlad\u0131n\u0131z siz beni\u2026 Bir insan, e\u011fer insan ise, ya\u015fayan bir varl\u0131k ise, d\u0131\u015fardan gelen etkiye tepki veren bir canl\u0131 ise, d\u0131\u015fardan gelen etkiler de\u011fi\u015ftik\u00e7e ve b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e ve deneyimi artt\u0131k\u00e7a, ve hayat farkl\u0131la\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a, ya\u015f\u0131 artt\u0131k\u00e7a, ve dahas\u0131 bir d\u00fcnya sebepten de\u011fi\u015febilir\u2026<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Biz bu insan de\u011fi\u015firse ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 bilmiyorumla ya\u015fayamay\u0131z\u2026 \u00d6mr\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc o insan de\u011fi\u015fmesin ve ona ba\u011fl\u0131 benim d\u00fczenimde<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>de hi\u00e7 bir de\u011fi\u015fiklik olmas\u0131n diye ge\u00e7irmemiz gerekir o zaman bu korkuyla,<\/li>\n<li>Biz insanlara hep de\u011fi\u015febilirler diye hi\u00e7 g\u00fcvenmemeyi se\u00e7ip hep \u015f\u00fcpheler i\u00e7inde de ya\u015fayamay\u0131z de\u011fi\u015firlerse bize neler neler yapabilirler diye\u2026 Stres yer bitirir b\u00fcnyemizi olas\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimizin aras\u0131nda&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ama biz\u2026. Kendimize g\u00fcvenmeyi se\u00e7ebiliriz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kendimize g\u00fcvenmeyi \u00f6\u011frenebiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>Kendimize \u00f6yle bir g\u00fcveniriz ki, kim ne yaparsa yaps\u0131n, hayat nerden eserse essin bununla ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kabilece\u011fimizi biliriz\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bizim i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ek \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck, bizim i\u00e7in ger\u00e7ek huzur, ger\u00e7ek rahatl\u0131k ve tabi ki ger\u00e7ek ili\u015fkiler bu ki\u015fisel &#8211; kendimize duydu\u011fumuz g\u00fcvenle ba\u015flar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcven d\u0131\u015far\u0131 duyulan bir \u015fey de\u011fildir yani\u2026<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019Sana g\u00fcveniyorum\u2019\u2019 de\u011fil- \u2018\u2019G\u00fcvenmeyi se\u00e7iyorum her g\u00fcn de\u011fi\u015fece\u011fini bilirken\u2019\u2019 demek \u2018\u2019\u0130\u00e7 huzurumu se\u00e7iyorum her \u015feyin \u00fczerinde ve kendime g\u00fcveniyorum olas\u0131 t\u00fcm durumlarda \u2018\u2019 demek asl\u0131nda.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019 Her g\u00fcn de\u011fi\u015fip b\u00fcy\u00fcmene \u015fahitlik etme onurunda oldu\u011fum i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutluyum.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019Seninle ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m her anda, olas\u0131 her ihtimali bilirken, bug\u00fcn birbirimizi tekrar ve yeniden se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutluyum\u2026\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019 Her yeni g\u00fcne ger\u00e7ekli\u011fimi dolduran her seye g\u00fcvenerek ba\u015fl\u0131yorum\u2026 Olur da al\u0131\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011fum- umdu\u011fum ya da bekledi\u011fim gibi gitmezse bir \u015feyler, onu da o zaman d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz\u2026 her zaman bir yolunu bulur ruhumuzun y\u00fckse\u011fi..\u2019\u2019<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>diyebildi\u011fimiz , bu ve benzeri c\u00fcmleleri kurdu\u011fumuz , kurabildi\u011fimiz, kendimizi \u00e7ok \u00e7ok sevdi\u011fimiz, kendimize 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