{"id":1708,"date":"2021-07-03T20:25:59","date_gmt":"2021-07-03T17:25:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=1708"},"modified":"2021-07-07T23:13:45","modified_gmt":"2021-07-07T20:13:45","slug":"hamilelik-ve-emzirme-donemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=1708","title":{"rendered":"Hamilelik ve Emzirme D\u00f6nemi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Bug\u00fcn ki konuyu \u00e7ok can\u0131m\u0131n i\u00e7i, \u00e7ok daha yeni anne, \u00e7ok \u00e7ok uzaklarda bir \u00f6\u011frencim sordu\u2026Uzaktan elimden geldi\u011finde detay detay anlat\u0131p yan\u0131ndaym\u0131\u015f hissini verebilirim umar\u0131m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan deneyimini ya\u015fayabilmemiz i\u00e7in bir insan bedenine sahip olmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fi ortada\u2026<\/p>\n<p>E bu insan bedeninin olu\u015fum<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>ve sonras\u0131nda beslenme- emzirilme s\u00fcrecinde neler yapmam\u0131z gerekir demi\u015f ki hikayemizin en \u00f6nemli, en derine saklanan, en zor \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenesi yerleri belki de oralar hayat ya\u015fan\u0131rken ve hazineler aran\u0131rken\u2026 O zaman yava\u015f yava\u015f \u00fczerinden ge\u00e7memiz gerekirse neler yapabiliriz diye;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Anne yumurtas\u0131nda- baba sperminde binlerce ata haf\u0131zas\u0131 bilgisini titre\u015fim olarak saklarken, anneyi y\u00fckl\u00fc dosyal\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fcn bir bilgisayar , babay\u0131 da y\u00fckl\u00fc bilgili bir USB olarak d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirsiniz\u2026 Yani- g\u00fclmeyin tabi ciddi bir \u015fey anlat\u0131yorum.-)-baba usb yi takip bilgi transferini ba\u015flatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sanki en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>ve en y\u00fckl\u00fc olan\u0131 diyelim anneyle birle\u015fiyor, b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fiyor ve yeni do\u011facak insan\u0131n bedenini olu\u015fturmak i\u00e7in s\u00fcre\u00e7 ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/li>\n<li>Burada gelen ata haf\u0131zalar\u0131 i\u00e7in o an yapabilece\u011fimiz \u00e7ok fazla bir \u015fey yok, ama \u00f6ncesinde bolca duygusal temizlik yapmak ve i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bedenin ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 negatif y\u00fck\u00fc olabildi\u011fince temizlemeyi becermi\u015f olmak, aktaraca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ata haf\u0131zas\u0131nda yeni do\u011facak bebe\u011fe daha az y\u00fck- temizlenecek daha az negatif \u015farj &#8211; anlam\u0131na geliyor\u2026 Yani kendi \u00fczerinizde ne kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, hamile kalmadan ne kadar \u00e7ok ata haf\u0131zas\u0131ndan sizde aktive olmu\u015f kay\u0131tlar\u0131 temizlerseniz, yeni do\u011facak bebe\u011finize o kadar az i\u015f b\u0131rak\u0131yorsunuzdur diyebiliriz\u2026<\/li>\n<li>\u00d6ncesini ge\u00e7ip, hamile kalma an\u0131na gelirsek, o anda da ne kadar mutlu- huzurlu- b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck hissinde- keyifli- sevgi dolu olursak yine bedenin<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>ilk ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7 noktas\u0131n\u0131n enerjisini ona g\u00f6re belirlemi\u015f oluyoruz.<\/li>\n<li>Hamilelik s\u00fcrecinde yeni do\u011facak olan\u0131n bedeni annenin s\u0131v\u0131 dolu karn\u0131nda olu\u015furken, su haf\u0131zas\u0131 direk devreye giriyor; annenin dinledi\u011fi m\u00fczik, seyretti\u011fi her \u015fey, yan\u0131nda konu\u015fulanlar, annenin hislerinin tamam\u0131n\u0131n titre\u015fim y\u00fck\u00fc annenin bedeninin i\u00e7inde olu\u015fmaya devam eden bedenin titre\u015fim y\u00fck\u00fcne kaydoluyor. Bu demek oluyor ki 9 ay boyunda annenin ne hissetti\u011fi, her an\u0131, annenin bedeninin i\u00e7inde olu\u015fan bedenin h\u00fccre haf\u0131zas\u0131na kayboluyor, ve olu\u015fum s\u00fcrecinde olan beden b\u00fcy\u00fcmeye devam ederken, \u00fczerine yap\u0131lananlar, bu en derin kodlar\u0131n \u00fczerine yap\u0131lan\u0131yor\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Annenin karn\u0131na m\u00fczik dinletmek, bebekle anne karn\u0131nda konu\u015fmak, sevildi\u011finin s\u00f6ylenmesi, ellerimizi koyup bebe\u011fi kar\u0131n \u00fczerinden sevmek, vb gibi her \u015fey asl\u0131nda i\u00e7erde var olan &#8211; olaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan- b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bedene titre\u015fim yollamak- titre\u015fimlerle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak- titre\u015fim y\u00fcklemekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fil\u2026.<\/li>\n<li>Do\u011fum \u015fekline korkudan de\u011fil, sevgiden karar veriyor olmak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli\u2026 Bebe\u011fin do\u011fal yollarla do\u011fmas\u0131 da bu \u00f6nemli s\u00fcrecin bir par\u00e7as\u0131. Annenin ya da aile fertlerinin do\u011fum s\u00fcrecinden korkuyor olmalar\u0131 gerekiyorsa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken konular\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda gelebilir hatta. Neden mi? Do\u011fum ilk transformasyonu gibidir yeni do\u011fan\u0131n; annenin bedeninde ba\u015flayan s\u00fcre\u00e7le art\u0131k orada daha fazla kalamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilir ve kendini oldu\u011fu yerden \u00e7\u0131karmak i\u00e7in anneden de b\u00fcy\u00fck destek alarak, ama kendisi de s\u00fcreci y\u00fczde y\u00fcz ya\u015fayarak d\u00fcnyayla bulu\u015fur\u2026 Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ge\u00e7ti\u011fi yollar onu d\u00fcnyaya haz\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in hem gerekli g\u00fcc\u00fc, hem de gerekli mikrobiatay\u0131, hem de gerekli nefesle bulu\u015fma \u015feklini ona getirecektir. \u00c7ok ki\u015fisel ve \u00f6zel bir karar oldu\u011fundan \u00e7ok fazla detaya girmek istemedi\u011fim bu s\u00fcre\u00e7, \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in de anne i\u00e7in de, ne kadar do\u011fal o kadar iyi diye toplayabilirim ama\u2026<\/li>\n<li>Do\u011fumdan sonra anne s\u00fct\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011fun besinsel olarak ihtiyac\u0131 olan herseye ona verece\u011fi gibi, hala kendini annesinin bir organ\u0131 sanan bebek i\u00e7in de annenin t\u00fcm titre\u015fimini s\u00fcr\u00fcyle bedenine doldurmas\u0131 demektir.. Yani s\u00fct emdi\u011fi s\u00fcrece annenin karn\u0131ndayken hissetti\u011fi annesinin titre\u015fim y\u00fck\u00fcyle hala birliktedir. \u00d6zellikle annesinin memesinden, annesiyle tensel temas\u0131 devam ederek emiyor olmas\u0131 bebe\u011fin anneyle olan b\u00fct\u00fcnl\u00fck ve buna ba\u011fl\u0131 g\u00fcvenlik hissini destekleyece\u011fi i\u00e7in bebe\u011fi yine do\u011fal yollarla beslemeyi se\u00e7mek hem anne &#8211; hem de bebek i\u00e7in en uygunudur\u2026<\/li>\n<li>S\u00fct verme s\u00fcrecinde yine dikkat edilmesi gereken \u015fey bebe\u011fin etraf\u0131ndaki t\u00fcm titre\u015fimlere a\u00e7\u0131k olmas\u0131, \u00f6zellikle annesinin s\u00fct\u00fcyle direk doldu\u011fu i\u00e7in , annesinin s\u00fcr\u00fc annesinin bedeninden direk ona ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, o s\u00fct b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde su oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, o su da annesinin su haf\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131n hepsini ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, annenin ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, hissetti\u011fi, seyretti\u011fi, dinledi\u011fi, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131, yedi\u011fi, i\u00e7ti\u011fi bu d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ok \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir\u2026 Sadece emzirirken de\u011fil, t\u00fcn g\u00fcn boyunca&#8230; Bu ince detay\u0131 l\u00fctfen atlamayal\u0131m.-) Direk yeni do\u011fan\u0131n ileride ger\u00e7e\u011fini olu\u015fturacak beden haf\u0131zas\u0131 ve titre\u015fim ortalamas\u0131n\u0131n temeli bu d\u00f6nemdir\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Can\u0131m yeni anneler\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Can\u0131m can\u0131m yeni anne adaylar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck mucizelerinden birini ya\u015farken, karn\u0131n\u0131zda ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o muazzaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n sizin karn\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p bu d\u00fcnyada var olaca\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011finin verdi\u011fi onur ve \u015f\u00fckranla, siz ne titre\u015fim y\u00fcklerseniz o bedene o muhte\u015fem ruhun hayat\u0131n\u0131n temeli olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bilgeli\u011fiyle\u2026 Elinizden gelenin en iyisiyle\u2026 En \u00e7ok kendinizi sevdi\u011finiz, en \u00e7ok hayat\u0131n keyfini \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, en \u00e7ok kahkaha at\u0131p g\u00fczel hayaller kurdu\u011funuz, en \u00e7ok sevginizi rahatl\u0131kla ak\u0131tmay\u0131 se\u00e7ti\u011finiz, ve en \u00e7ok &#8221; \u00f6nce ben ve bebe\u011fim&#8221; diyebildi\u011finiz s\u00fcre\u00e7 olmas\u0131n\u0131 dilerim bu zaman diliminin\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kendinize \u00e7ok iyi bak\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Siz ne kadar mutlu ve huzurlu, \u00e7ocu\u011funuz o kadar mesut olacakt\u0131r\u2026 Hayata dair ilk tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 titre\u015fim onun g\u00fcvenlik alan\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131ndan, o da sizin muhte\u015fem bedeninizin muhte\u015fem titre\u015fim ortalamas\u0131 oldu\u011fundan&#8230; Siz ne kadar mutlu, bebe\u011finizin i\u015fi o kadar kolay olacakt\u0131r&#8230; \u0130yiliklerle bulu\u015fun, b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcn beraber&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Sar\u0131ld\u0131m herbirinize\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sevgimle,<\/p>\n<p>Banu<\/p>\n<p>3 Temmuz 2021<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bug\u00fcn ki konuyu \u00e7ok can\u0131m\u0131n i\u00e7i, \u00e7ok daha yeni anne, \u00e7ok \u00e7ok uzaklarda bir \u00f6\u011frencim sordu\u2026Uzaktan elimden geldi\u011finde detay detay anlat\u0131p yan\u0131ndaym\u0131\u015f hissini verebilirim umar\u0131m\u2026 \u0130nsan deneyimini ya\u015fayabilmemiz i\u00e7in bir [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1709,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1708","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1708","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1708"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1708\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1732,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1708\/revisions\/1732"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1709"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1708"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1708"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1708"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}