{"id":1059,"date":"2018-08-06T15:06:31","date_gmt":"2018-08-06T12:06:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=1059"},"modified":"2018-08-06T15:40:24","modified_gmt":"2018-08-06T12:40:24","slug":"neden-neden-neee-para-mi-dedin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/?p=1059","title":{"rendered":"Neden Neden??"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/heart-hand-shape-22280.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1060\" src=\"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/heart-hand-shape-22280.jpg\" alt=\"heart-hand-shape-22280\" width=\"1680\" height=\"1050\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/heart-hand-shape-22280.jpg 1680w, https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/heart-hand-shape-22280-300x187.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/heart-hand-shape-22280-1024x640.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.banukalayci.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/08\/heart-hand-shape-22280-800x500.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1680px) 100vw, 1680px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bir \u00e7ok \u015fey sessizce zihinlerde konu\u015fuluyor sanki..<\/p>\n<p>Ses bulursa bile anca bazen k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck gruplarda&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Neden Neden yaz\u0131s\u0131 yazmak istedim o y\u00fczden bug\u00fcn&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>10 sene olmu\u015f ilk s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131m\u0131 a\u00e7al\u0131&#8230;Haftan\u0131n 5 g\u00fcn\u00fc ayr\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131flar, ayr\u0131 gruplar daha sonra kendini seviyeli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara, sonra ayr\u0131 konularda tek g\u00fcnl\u00fck \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara, sonra workshoplara, sonra \u015fehir d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yat\u0131l\u0131 workshoplara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f&#8230; \u015eimdi de Afrika\u2019ya gidiyoruz , \u00fclke d\u0131\u015f\u0131na de\u011fil sadece, ba\u015fka k\u0131talara&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Aman da ne g\u00fczel \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015fs\u0131n, ba\u015f\u0131n g\u00f6\u011fe ermi\u015ftir deyin diye s\u00f6ylemiyorum tabi ki bunlar\u0131&#8230;Sadece 10 senede \u00e7ok soru, \u00e7ok merak, \u00e7ok ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131k var , elimden geldi\u011fince belki \u00fczerinden topluca ge\u00e7ebilirim diye baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>En \u00e7ok gelen sorular m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p><strong>* Bu i\u015f a\u015fk i\u015fi, g\u00f6n\u00fcl i\u015fi, insanla \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorsunuz, neden para al\u0131yorsunuz?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Efendim, \u015fimdi \u015f\u00f6yle&#8230; \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Kimimiz ekmek yap\u0131yor, kimimiz \u015firket y\u00f6netiyor, kimimiz ev temizliyor, kimimiz \u00e7ocuk bak\u0131yor, kimimiz yap\u0131 malzemeleri sat\u0131yor&#8230; Ama sonu\u00e7ta herkes eme\u011fini, vaktini, bilgisini ve deneyimi ortaya konuyor&#8230; Kimimiz severek ve a\u015f\u0131k olarak , kimimiz sevmeden ve kendini mecbur hissederek&#8230; Ve hepimiz ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnyadaki varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 , ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z a\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7indeki varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla birle\u015ftirip o a\u011fa hizmet ederek ge\u00e7iriyoruz&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Demeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m doktor olmak i\u00e7in al\u0131nan e\u011fitimle metafizik\u00e7i olarak al\u0131nan e\u011fitim, mimar olarak sat\u0131lan emekle, e\u011fitmen olarak sat\u0131lan emek, ki bu kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fma b\u00f6yle devam eder , en kolay\u0131yla para d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcyle ger\u00e7ekle\u015febiliyor..<\/p>\n<p>Birisinden hizmetini istedi\u011fimizde onun hizmeti ula\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken ki saatini, o hizmeti sunabilmek i\u00e7in yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortam\u0131, o hizmeti olu\u015fturabilmek i\u00e7in verdi\u011fi eme\u011fi asl\u0131nda istiyoruz&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Verdi\u011fi eme\u011fin- hizmetin bedelini kendi e\u015fsizli\u011fiyle ne kadar birle\u015ftirdi\u011fi, deneyimiyle ne kadar zenginle\u015ftirdi\u011fi, en k\u0131sa zamanda en kaliteli i\u015fi nas\u0131l \u00e7\u0131karabildi\u011fiyle \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcyoruz&#8230; Gibi gibi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Yani&#8230; t\u00fcm di\u011fer hizmetler \u00f6deme kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, e\u011fitmenlik de bir \u00fccret kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda tabi ki yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>* Neden bizden \u00fccret talep etmeyen ki\u015filerle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>Enerji dengelerinin hayat i\u00e7inde korunuyor olmas\u0131 gerekmekte.<\/p>\n<p>Evrende hi\u00e7 bo\u015fluk bulunmamas\u0131 gibi&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Size bir \u015fey veren ki\u015fi, enerji boyutunda- maddeselle\u015fmi\u015f ya da de\u011fil- sizden zaten bir \u015fey al\u0131yordur.<\/p>\n<p>Minnetinizi al\u0131yordur, kendini size ac\u0131ma \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ge\u00e7meyi se\u00e7erek egosal y\u00fckseli\u015f al\u0131yordur, sizi bor\u00e7lu k\u0131larak istedi\u011fi zaman istedi\u011fini alma l\u00fcks\u00fcnde oldu\u011funu sanmas\u0131n\u0131n beklentisini al\u0131yordur, kendini b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyi al\u0131yordur&#8230; Ama bir \u015fey al\u0131yordur o ya da bu&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Masaya oturdu\u011fumuzda hesap hep kapanmal\u0131&#8230; Kimse kimseye bor\u00e7lu ya da alacakl\u0131 alg\u0131s\u0131nda kalkmamal\u0131d\u0131r d\u00fczenli akan alma verme dengesinde&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>* \u00d6demeler t\u00fcm al\u0131\u015fveri\u015flerde hep parayla m\u0131 yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tabi ki hay\u0131r&#8230; Ben sana ders veririm, sen bana ekmek verirsin, \u00e7ocu\u011fuma bakars\u0131n, \u015firketimi y\u00f6netirsin, ne bileyim&#8230;. Her \u015fekilde olabilir&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ama her zaman ayn\u0131 para da fiyat belirtildi\u011fi gibi hizmetin d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn kesinle\u015ftirilmesi, net bir plana oturtulmas\u0131 \u00f6n g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr &#8230; Neden mi? Varsay\u0131mlar, beklentiler, anla\u015fman\u0131n net olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerlerdeki belirsizliklerin, hizmetlerin \u00fczerini \u00f6rtmemesi i\u00e7in&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>* Neden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarda \u00f6n \u00f6deme istiyorlar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Tabi ki madde d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n baz\u0131 k\u00f6\u015felerini kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmak var i\u015fin i\u00e7inde.. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n ortalama ka\u00e7 ki\u015fiyle yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilirseniz hangi odada, hangi ortamda, hangi malzemelerle, hangi mekanda yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ayarlaman\u0131z gerekiyor&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ama en \u00f6nemlisi asl\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n kalitesini art\u0131rmak.. Nas\u0131l m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Zihinsel olarak gelmeye karar veren ki\u015fi, duygusal olarak bir p\u0131rp\u0131r\u0131 y\u00fcz\u00fcnden gelmeyi istemektedir.. Yani zihin ve duygular olaya girmi\u015ftir&#8230; Ama bedeni de olan ve madde d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ya\u015fayan varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131 devreye sokmam\u0131z gerekir, yoksa aradaki yarat\u0131lan enerji akar gider.. Ama E\u011fer ki\u015fi harekete ge\u00e7ip, maddele\u015ftirirse istek ve duygusunu, \u00fc\u00e7geni olu\u015fur, havuzu s\u0131zd\u0131rmaz, enerjisi birikmeye ba\u015flar, ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya o enerjiyle girer, \u00e7ok daha fazla verim al\u0131r.. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmaya da ayn\u0131 anlamda \u00e7ok daha fazla kendini katar&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>* Neden \u00f6deme yapmayan insanlar\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara alm\u0131yoruz? Almamal\u0131y\u0131z&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00d6deme derken anlad\u0131n\u0131z siz beni, hizmetinize hizmetiyle \u2013 bu para olur ba\u015fka bir \u015fey olur- denk olan \u015fekilde kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermeyen ki\u015fiyi i\u00e7eri ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda , zihni-bedeni-duygular\u0131yla b\u00fct\u00fcnle\u015fmi\u015f, madde d\u00fcnyas\u0131na \u00f6demesiyle m\u00fchr\u00fcn\u00fc katm\u0131\u015f insanlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda o m\u00fchr\u00fc kapatmam\u0131\u015f ki\u015fiyi al\u0131yorsunuz demektir&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2019 nas\u0131l olsa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz, sen de gel yahu, ne olacak \u2018\u2019 dedi\u011fimizde yani her sefer, asl\u0131nda bir ki\u015fiye iyilik yapmay\u0131 hedeflerken, i\u00e7erdeki herkes \u00fc\u00e7 aya\u011f\u0131yla oradayken, iki ayakl\u0131 bir sehpa i\u00e7eri koyuyorsunuz gibi.. Daha \u00e7ok dengesiz, daha \u00e7ok sallanan o sehpa da birilerine \u00e7arp\u0131yor, bazen \u00fczerine konan d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fcyor.. Anlad\u0131n\u0131z siz beni&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Bir de ba\u015fka bir a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 var ki olay\u0131n, herkes i\u00e7eri koydu\u011fu kadar\u0131n\u0131 almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor i\u00e7erden&#8230;\u0130\u00e7eri s\u00fcrekli bir k\u00f6\u015feyi kapatmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in enerji biriktiremeyerek giren ki\u015fi, bir \u015fey koyamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, bir \u015fey almamay\u0131 da se\u00e7iyor bir bilin\u00e7te&#8230; Alsa da zaten havuz s\u0131zd\u0131r\u0131yor, koyacak yeri yok.. Ak\u0131p gidiyor&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Yani dedi\u011fim olay sadece \u00f6denen ya da \u00f6denmeyen para de\u011fil.. ne enerji i\u015fleri d\u00f6n\u00fcyor o arada hep dik durmam\u0131z gereken&#8230;.-))<\/p>\n<p><strong>* Neden bu i\u015flerde bu kadar para al\u0131n\u0131yor? \u00c7ok de\u011fil mi hocam??<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De\u011fil&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7al\u0131\u015fma mekan\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma saatleriniz, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya verdi\u011finiz emek, katt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z e\u015fsizli\u011finiz, s\u00fcrekli ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z e\u011fitimler ve kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z metaryaller&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fin d\u00fcnyada ne kadar bulunur olmas\u0131n\u0131n , yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fin de\u011ferini maddesel d\u00fcnyada ne kadar artt\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bahsetmiyorum bile&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Ben enerjileri g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum, di\u011fer boyutlara gidip geliyorum, enerji merkezlerindeki t\u0131kan\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131 a\u00e7abiliyorum ve sana nas\u0131l a\u00e7\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretiyorum, oturdu\u011fum yerde hangi dolab\u0131nda hangi e\u015fyan hangi enerjiyi tutuyor ve neye bakman gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum diyelim&#8230; \u00dczerine t\u00fcm bunlar\u0131 yaparken d\u00fcnya d\u00fczleminde asla yerine konamayacak ve gitti mi giden zaman\u0131m\u0131 kullanarak bunu yap\u0131yorum diyelim&#8230; Bu durumda \u00e7ok u, az \u0131 hayat belirliyor san\u0131r\u0131m&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Olan ne&#8230;?<\/p>\n<p>Hepimiz asla de\u011feri bi\u00e7ilemeyecek zaman\u0131m\u0131za bir fiyat koyuyoruz&#8230; Saatimizin fiyat\u0131 \u00f6denir oldu\u011fu zaman o bizim fiyat\u0131m\u0131z oluyor.. \u00c7okuna az\u0131na hayat ve hizmetimize verdi\u011fimiz de\u011fer , onu geli\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in koydu\u011fumuz kalp karar veriyor sanki &#8230;. Fiyat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 belirlese de , de\u011ferimizi belirtmiyor tabi ki&#8230; O da ayr\u0131 bir konu.-))<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ne kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey varm\u0131\u015f yazaca\u011f\u0131m me\u011ferse&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bug\u00fcn olay hep para ger\u00e7ekli\u011finde d\u00f6nd\u00fc&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ok da \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil tabi ki madde d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda eme\u011fin ve zaman\u0131n simgesi olmas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ama \u015f\u00f6yle devam edelim bence&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"mailto:ruhunuzladans.info@gmail.com\">ruhunuzladans.info@gmail.com<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>bu benim mail adresim&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Siz neden neden diye merak ettiklerinizi buraya yaz\u0131n&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ben de cevaplayabildi\u011fim kadar cevaplamaya blog \u00fczerinden devam edeyim&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Olur mu?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bence olur&#8230;..<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018 ay nas\u0131l olsa sorar birisi, \u015fimdi ben bula\u015fmayay\u0131m\u2019 demeyin ama&#8230; Bula\u015f\u0131n.. ben al\u0131nmam, g\u00fccenmem, sevinirim bir de bir sorunun, bir sorgulaman\u0131n rahatlamas\u0131na vesile olursam &#8230;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><strong>Ben biraz yazay\u0131m bu aralar hem.. \u00d6zlemi\u015fim yazmay\u0131&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sar\u0131l\u0131yorum herkese&#8230;.Sevgi&#8230; Sayg\u0131&#8230; \u015e\u00fckranla&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Banu<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir \u00e7ok \u015fey sessizce zihinlerde konu\u015fuluyor sanki.. 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